Soul Mirroring is the relational art of reflecting the subtle qualities others unconsciously carry to their awareness. It helps you:
(1) Gain a grounded awareness of your gifts
Through the eyes of others, receive reflections of undeniable patterns of qualities and be empowered to embrace your gifts.
(2) Disarm defenses and create authentic connections
Breakthrough shallow small-talk and make others instantly feel deeply seen and heard.
(3) Tap into the Wisdom of the group
Develop the ability to learn profound, timely lessons by noticing the subtle dynamics at play in group settings.
Soul Mirroring is a relational yoga where we develop the intuitive and mental skill of reflecting others Light—their qualities and gifts—to their awareness.
Unlike shadow-work, or the practice of becoming aware of our unconscious negative behaviors, we focus on the positive innate qualities of other’s soul. This helps us develop a deep, grounded awareness of our own soul qualities and the necessary tendencies that we must learn to master over time.
It was developed by Cristallin Toullec, a French-Canadian personal development coach, as a synthesis of his training in Neural-Linguistic Programming (NLP), spiritual mentorship, and experience with relational dynamics in intentional communities.
Typically, Soul Mirroring sessions are done in small groups of 3-5 people (although it can be applied one-on-one) and follow this sequence:
(1) One person shares a valuable experience while the others listen carefully, asking themselves, “What qualities touch my heart in hearing this person?”
(2) The other participants take turns mirroring back the Light of the person one-by-one until everyone shares.
(3) The person mirrored expresses how they are touched by the reflections they’ve received.
(4) Repeat until everyone receives a mirroring.
Once trained in level 1 of Soul Mirroring, practitioners can begin to apply this skill in all of their relationships—both personal and professional—without this particular framing.
Fig. 1: Soul Mirroring Level 1 Pyramid
Since we are all relational beings, Soul Mirroring is for everyone! That said, it’s of particular value for:
(1) Join The Soul Mirroring Level 1 Program
Send your application and join the 10-week program with a small cohort of like-minded brothers and sisters committed to personal growth.
(2) Join The Mirroring Men
If you’d like to learn in a men’s group, apply for the 13-Week Initiatic Journey at themirroringmen.com.
(3) Join or Request a Workshop
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